As the evenings get darker its a strange time of year. A time of transition as we re-adjust to the ending of summer (what summer I hear you ask?) and the arrival of Autumn.

September is the ninth calendar month of the year, a number which relates in healing numerology to letting go. This is an important healing principle and the ego will try to prevent it.

Its the harvest time and also we are coming closer to  the Autumn Equinox, so aptly called ‘the Fall’ in America.

Many clients I have been coaching recently are going through the ending of a relationship.

Besides the painful feelings of betrayal and hurt, its a time of grief and mourning.

There is also the self attack that comes from the Ego when it tells us ‘how could I have been such a fool? Can I ever trust myself again?

Its so easy to want to cut off from someone when we’ve been hurt, or even humiliated.

But that denies the truth of the feelings that we once shared.

I believe that every relationship has a purpose. And importantly, that there are soul level gifts that we each came to bring each other.

This applies to every relationship, whether romantic, or business; whether family or friend.

The Exercise: Giving The Gift

• Ask your higher mind- what is the soul level gift that I came to bring this person?
• Be as specific as you can. Some gifts are:- success, healing, abundance, flow, creativity, good fortune, self-value, intuition, humour, being carefree, sexuality, freedom, inspiration.
• In your imagination give that gift now. (I ask my clients what colour would it be?)
• Connect with your heart and see and feel the person being filled up with it.
• Now ask what gift they came to bring you, see the colour and feel yourself being filled up with it.

Once we give our gift, we increase it for our self. As it says in A Course in Miracles states- “To have all, give all to all.’

As we receive the gift from the other, it allows us to move on. We’ll be strengthened, and the relationship has meaning.

Coaching and Free 3 Card Reading

I offer coaching via the phone or Skype, and use many healing procesess to help you move forward in your life and embrace your life’s purpose.
For a free 3 Card Reading and to find out more see Coaching

Event for women

An Invitation To Embrace your Divine Feminine Power

Oct 3rd/4th Women’s Retreat Facilitated by Pam Carruthers and Brigitte Sumner

As we move into the golden softness of Autumn, we invite you to join us on a women’s retreat to renew your spirits and restore your soul.

Autumn is a time to clarify and integrate – a time of harvesting and a time of letting go.

Its the perfect time to go within, and to enter sacred space.

For two days you’ll be staying with us in Florence House, a nurturing haven near the Seven Sisters on the south coast close by the sea.

The earlybird is September 20th and there are limited places.

So if you need time out from your everyday life, time for yourself, a place to be nurtured, to de-stress and heal, then please

click here Women’s Retreat

Have a wonderful month,

blessings,
Pam x

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