How a many of you have recently had a sore throat or major problems
with your voice?
The throat is the 5th chakra, and is the second power chakra in our
body. Many people say that their biggest fear is that of public speaking.
Is this the fear of speaking or what the result may be? Is it really
a fear of being ridiculed and attacked when we stand up and take
our place?
We are in a crucial period in our evolution - an awakening
is going on - and it is really important that those who hear the
call step up and take their place.
If you feel called to lead, to be a pioneer, whether it is in your
family, in a team or in your community, then reclaiming your power
is essential. This doesn't mean to becoming aggressive or having
to fight for it. Fighting only leads to a power struggle and even
if you win it means that someone else loses and will in turn get
revenge at some later date. Not a good idea!
If we felt overshadowed in our family by someone who dominated,
who took up all the emotional, physical or psychological space and
got the most attention, then its really hard to take our true place.
Even if we move a long way away from our family they are always with
us. We might not consciously think that someone took up too much
space but it is still affecting us.
Ask Yourself: Are you afraid to shine for fear
that you might be attacked if you do?
Are you holding back because you think by shining you will be more
successful and wealthier than your father thus diminishing him? Making
him feel small? Taking his place? Or have a better life than your
mother ever dreamed of and in doing so incurring her jealousy?
Do you find you are put in situations where you feel you have to
take over and then get bothered by feeling you are too important?
As Marianne Williamson writes "There is nothing enlightened
about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you."
Do you feel resentful when someone takes over and
invades your space?
This is why people move a long way away from their original family
and a good reason why people keep a certain distance between those
they love. There is a fear of going into sacrifice in meeting all
their needs (whether spoken or not).
Do you long to be the centre of attention but then
feel guilty when you get it?
Are you secretly jealous and get angry of others
who seem to take the spotlight and dominate? However when the attention
is on you, you shrink?
The disappointment we feel, the sadness and heartbreaks of our lives
reflect the lost bonding we had as a child. Bonding is when
we feel connected and joined. Its a place of peace and centredness.
And in that place there is no domination, but equality. In that place
we are a star and others shine more brightly by being in our presence.
Marianne Williamson puts it so well. "And as we let
our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission
to do the same."
When we return to our centre we regain a balance in our lives between
work and play. Our relationships become equal. When we are a star
we join our friends, our team of other stars to become a constellation.
And this is our true power. The world needs more constellations of
stars.
I will explore all the places where we lost faith in ourselves and
went off track and heal them with transformational centering processes.
You'll learn some tools to take away and use in your everyday life
to solve everyday relationship problems. There really is
no time to lose.
Join me in London July 5th/6th 'Healing
Your Birth Story- Embrace Your Golden Life' This is a workshop
that is based on your Astrological Life Wheel showing you where
you are gifted and where you have blind spots and blocks that are
holding you back. If you love astrology this will have a special
appeal.
with warmest wishes,
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